Choosing the perfect mother of the bride shoes or mother of the groom shoes is about more than simply coordinating with your outfit, it’s about creating a look that feels elegant, confident and perfectly suited to the style of the day. Following on from my previous blog where wIe shared expert tips on how to choose the right shoes for the big day, now I'm giving you some ideas on how to style them.
I’ve taken four of our most loved mother of the bride and groom shoes and paired them with four very different occasion looks to show just how versatile they can be. Whether your style leans towards classic and timeless, modern and minimal or softly romantic, the right pair of occasion shoes for the mother of the bride or groom can bring your entire outfit together effortlessly.
From tailored dresses to contemporary tailoring, these styling ideas are designed to help you picture how the perfect wedding guest shoes for mothers can complement your look while keeping you comfortable from ceremony to celebration. So let's take a look shall we?
A modern romantic look
Our Isadora blush shoes are the perfect starting point for a look that feels both elegant and contemporary. Soft blush tones are a beautiful choice for mother of the bride shoes or mother of the groom shoes, as they complement a wide range of wedding colour palettes while adding a touch of femininity.
For this styling board, we paired the shoes with a striking full-length black pleated skirt featuring an oversized floral print in soft blush and pink tones. A simple blush pink cami top echoes the colour of the shoes, creating a cohesive palette, with a cropped white jacket adding structure and a fresh, modern finish.
Accessories keep the look polished and sophisticated. A rouched black satin clutch bag ties in perfectly with the darker tones of the skirt, while gold and jewel drop earrings bring out the blush tones and add a touch of sparkle.
The result is a refined yet fashion-forward outfit that shows how versatile blush mother of the bride shoes can be. Soft, elegant and easy to style, they work beautifully with both prints and classic separates, making them a lovely choice for mothers who want a look that feels stylish but still timeless for the big day.
A soft yet statement look
Our Celine taupe suede block heel court shoes are a classic choice if you're looking for elegant mother of the bride shoes or mother of the groom shoes that balance style with all-day comfort. The soft taupe suede acts as a beautifully versatile neutral, making these classic court shoes easy to style with both bold colours and more understated occasionwear.
For this look, we’ve paired them with a striking violet dress featuring elegant side pleat detailing. The rich jewel tone creates a confident, sophisticated statement, while the pleats add movement and flattering structure- perfect for the big day!
Layered over the dress is a neutral cropped sleeve jacket, softening the violet and tying effortlessly back to the taupe shoes. Accessories add an extra layer of drama and elegance with rich plum accents adding depth to the colour palette, including a structured statement headpiece and a ruched velvet clutch with a bow detail. A chunky gold chain T-bar bracelet finishes the look beautifully, echoing the clutch bag’s gold chain strap and adding a subtle bit of metallic.
This outfit shows how neutral mother of the bride or groom shoes can ground a more vibrant ensemble, creating a look that feels confident, sophisticated and just the right amount of statement without being over the top.
An elegant look with a boho edge
Our Margot mint suede low heel bow shoes are a beautiful choice for comfortable yet elegant mother of the bride or mother of the groom shoes. With their soft colour, delicate bow detail and low heel, they bring a light feel to an outfit as well as being super practical for a full day.
For this look, we’ve styled them with a gorgeous floral print dress. The dress's deep navy base is printed with florals in soft blues and greens, creating a palette that feels fresh and romantic . The mint tone of the shoes lifts the overall look, adding a subtle pop of colour that ties beautifully into the dress’s softer shades.
Add an extra layer for cooler moments with a soft navy cashmere pashmina, which also keeps the look refined and cohesive by echoing the navy tones within the dress.
Accessories complete the outfit with a mint green headband fascinator coordinating effortlessly with the shoes, while a geometric gold and crystal necklace with matching drop earrings introduces a contemporary touch of sparkle. The result is a look that feels relaxed yet polished- perfect for a modern, slightly boho take on mother of the bride style.
Dress | Scarf | Shoes | Fascinator | Necklace | Earrings
An elegant evening inspired look
If you're looking for an elevated look that works particularly well or late afternoon or evening weddings, our Sapphire gold leather slingback pointed shoes are the perfect choice. Gold shoes are a wonderfully versatile option for weddings, adding instant style and a soft contrast while pairing beautifully with a wide range of occasionwear colours.
For this styling board, we’ve created a look with a subtle evening feel by pairing the shoes with a floaty champagne top and wide-leg dark green trousers. The soft movement of the top balances the structure of the trousers, and green and gold is a classic colour combination.
Accessories continue the elevated, refined theme, with a woven gold leather clutch echoing the tone of the shoes while adding texture, and gold drop pearl earrings and a matching necklace bringing timeless elegance and a touch of wedding-day sparkle.
This look shows how gold mother of the bride shoes can elevate an outfit beautifully, creating a polished vibe that transitions effortlessly from ceremony to evening celebrations.
Top | Trousers | Shoes | Bag | Earrings | Necklace | Polish
Finding the perfect mother of the bride shoes or mother of the groom shoes is about choosing a style that complements your outfit while keeping you comfortable and confident from day to night. From soft pastels and elegant neutrals to statement metallics, the right pair of occasion shoes can bring your entire look together beautifully.
If you’re still searching for the perfect finishing touch, explore our full collection of elegant mother of the bride shoes here, and discover your perfect pair.
Love,
Rachel xx